Romantic and Playful Flathead Lake Elopement

Romantic + Playful Flathead Lake Elopement 

Titus + Caleb’s cabin lifestyle session and lakeside love letters

Titus and Caleb had the most incredible cabin lifestyle session and lakeside love letter reading in Montana — I always have a blast with these two, and I know our sessions will be incredible inspo as you plan your own destination elopement! 

Flathead Lake elopement and love letter reading

Flathead Lake Elopement Film

In their Montana elopement film at Flathead Lake, I seamlessly blended footage from their cozy A-frame cabin lifestyle session with their heartfelt love letter reading on the lakeshore. It added depth and authenticity to their story, showing their relationship beyond just the wedding day. For couples planning their own wedding films, consider adding a story session like this for casual, genuine moments that truly capture your connection.

Cabin lifestyle couples session

I’m obsessed with story-drive couples and engagement sessions that reflect my clients’ true personalities…notttt so much posing in a field, haha!! I shot with Titus and Caleb in a gorgeous and cozy A-frame cabin in Whitefish, Montana in the fall. Titus and Caleb's lifestyle session was all about chill vibes and simple pleasures. They kicked back, played cards, sipped mimosas, and snuggled up like it was just another lazy morning. Together, they whipped up some pancakes, laughing and enjoying each other's company. Stepping out onto the deck, overlooking Flathead Lake, they soaked in the view while eating the breakfast they made. This session captured the real essence of their connection—casual, genuine, and totally them.

Flathead Lake Elopement Inspo

On the shores of Flathead Lake near Bigfork, Montana, Titus and Caleb shared a special moment, reading personal love letters to each other. With nothing but the lake breeze and the sound of water lapping against the shore, they poured their hearts out in their letters, their words filled with love and sincerity. Their session can be a source of inspiration for couples looking for a stripped-down, personal, and deeply romantic elopement. It's proof that you don't need grand gestures to make a moment special; sometimes, it's the simplicity and intimacy that create the most unforgettable memories.

Whimsical lakeside elopement outfit inspo

For Titus and Caleb, their elopement outfits were a reflection of their authentic selves, offering inspiration for other queer couples. While they didn't opt for matching attire, their outfits were carefully coordinated, with complementary colors and mismatched suit jackets that perfectly embodied their individual styles. Both adorned with flower crowns from Field Five Flowers, they exuded a sense of whimsy and charm that was uniquely their own. This serves as a reminder to all couples planning their special day: dress in a way that feels true to who you are. Don't feel pressured to conform to traditional expectations or play dress-up if it doesn't resonate with your style. Your wedding attire should be a celebration of your love and individuality, allowing you to shine as your most authentic selves on this momentous occasion.

Whimsical playful elopement photos at Flathead Lake Montana

Flower Crown Elopement Inspo

Bethany from Field Five Flowers is such a creative, innovative, inspirational floral designer and grower. Bethany created these incredible pieces that coordinate, not perfectly match, and they held up through some WEATHER. I *highly* recommend Bethany and Field Five Flowers to ALL of my couples!! 

Gorgeous flower crowns by Bethany of Field Five Flowers in Missoula

All about getting married at Flathead Lake

Thinking about tying the knot on Flathead Lake? It's a stunning choice. With its clear waters and mountain views, it's a dream spot for many couples. Whether you want a small beach elopement or a bigger lakeside celebration, Flathead Lake offers endless options for a memorable wedding day.

Reading love letter vows by Flathead Lake

How to get to Flathead Lake: 

Weather info + best time of year to get married on Flathead Lake: 

Summer, spanning from June to August, is often the preferred time for weddings on Flathead Lake due to warm temperatures and extended daylight hours, perfect for outdoor celebrations. However, late spring (May) and early fall (September to October) also offer pleasant weather and fewer crowds. It's wise to prepare for occasional rain showers and thunderstorms, especially in summer. Regardless of the season, having backup plans for outdoor events is advisable.

Potential roadblocks that you made backup plans for 

When planning a wedding on Flathead Lake in Montana, it's essential to prepare for potential roadblocks that may arise. Weather can be unpredictable, with sudden changes in conditions, so having a backup plan for outdoor ceremonies is crucial. Additionally, consider accessibility issues, especially if your chosen location requires travel by boat or remote access points. It's wise to have alternative arrangements in place for transportation and guest accommodations in case of unforeseen circumstances. By anticipating potential challenges and having backup plans in place, couples can ensure a smooth and stress-free wedding experience amidst the stunning backdrop of Flathead Lake.

Best places to stay on Flathead Lake

Two grooms posing on a log at Flathead Lake at their elopement

Permits, passes, & legalities for getting married at Flathead Lake

Before exchanging vows on Flathead Lake, it's essential to familiarize yourself with local laws and regulations regarding weddings and events. However, a convenient workaround is to book lodging directly on the lake or choose a venue that offers ceremony services. Many accommodations and venues in the area are well-versed in hosting weddings, simplifying the process and ensuring compliance with any necessary permits or ordinances. By opting for a lakeside lodging or venue, couples can streamline the planning process and focus on creating unforgettable memories against the backdrop of Flathead Lake's breathtaking scenery.

Montana State Parks: Special Use Permit (price varies by park)

  • Complete a Special Use Permit application and mail it to the FWP Regional Office in the area where you wish to elope. 

  • If your application is approved, you will receive your approved permit with directions on how to pay the fee.

How to Obtain Your Montana Marriage License:

  1. Apply for your marriage license online.

  2. Visit a County clerk’s office in person (both of you) to sign the application & provide a valid photo ID.

  3. Once you sign your license, you will need to pay the $53 fee. Cash or card is accepted but there will be an additional fee for credit card.

Montana Marriage Laws

  • Is Montana residency required? No

  • Witnesses required? Yes, 2

  • Officiant required? Yes

  • How long is the license valid? It will expire after 180 days. 

  • Waiting period? No, you can get married the same day you obtain your marriage license. 

Two grooms at Flathead Lake Montana elopement

Flathead Lake Wedding Vendors

Looking for the perfect team to bring your Flathead Lake wedding vision to life? Let's dive into the top vendors who can turn your dream day into a reality.

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Flathead Lake Elopement Photographer and Videographer Shayna Lloyd Posing in Front of a Backdrop Headshot

Flathead Lake wedding and elopement photographer and videographer

Heyyy, I’m Shay, your Flathead Lake wedding and elopement photographer and videographer. If you love story-driven photos and videos, then check out the info + pricing page and fill out my contact form so we can connect about your big day!! I can’t wait to hear all about it.